Dini Arini’s husband, Anggri Pratama, was a successful banker in Indonesia, but he put his career on hold to help her pursue education at Washington State University Pullman.
When Arini began her Fulbright journey on the Palouse, Pratama stayed in Indonesia to care for their two daughters, ages 5 and 9. Eventually, Pratama and the kids joined Arini in Pullman, and he took a job as a custodian at the Palouse Mall, where he often worked until the early hours of the morning.
“The nights filled with solitude, the echoes of his footsteps in an empty mall, were a silent symphony of his sacrifices,” Arini said. “While I immersed myself in lectures and workshops, he seamlessly transitioned into the role of a homemaker, preparing meals, and maintaining our household without a word of complaint.”
In recognition of his tireless support of Arini, Pratama was recognized as the Spring 2024 Chosen Coug on Saturday, April 6, during a ceremony at Elson S. Floyd Cultural Center in Pullman.
Pratama was selected among 26 finalists, according to Aaron Papin, coordinator of data and compliance in Student Affairs and a member of the selection committee.
“Amongst the many strong submissions, the committee found Ms. Arini’s tale of love and sacrifice particularly moving,” Papin said. “The almost poetic nature of her submission truly painted a picture of her husband’s character and explained what it means to be a Chosen Coug far better than I think we ever could.”
An ‘immeasurable impact’
In her award nomination, Arini wrote that Pratama’s decision to leave his established career showcases not only his love for her but also his unyielding belief in the importance of education and dreams. It was an extraordinary act of love and support that breathed life into her pursuit of knowledge. Pratama’s sacrifices allowed her to focus on her studies and created a foundation of love and stability that defines her family.
“He is not merely a life partner, but a true embodiment of the Coug spirit — resilient, supportive, and committed to the success of others,” Arini wrote. “My husband’s impact on my collegiate experience at WSU is immeasurable.”
The Chosen Coug Award, managed by Student Affairs and sponsored by BECU, recognizes individuals from across the university system who have made a substantial impact on a student’s experience at WSU. It is given twice a year during WSU’s Fall and Spring Family Weekends.
Joining Papin on the award selection committee were Rob Morales, associate director in the Access Center; Michael Heim, director of the College Assistance Migrant Program and High School Equivalency Program; Lauren Graziano, corporate engagement coordinator in WSU Foundation; and Jeanne Weiler, community engagement director in the Office of the President.
